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Whether you’re a woman or a guy, by now you’ve probably read - or at least heard of - the "Fifty Shades of Grey"phenomenon. The fastest-selling trilogy of all time depicts theS&Mrelationship between virginal Anastasia Steele and young business mogul Christian Grey.
What exactly made these books so appealing to women of all ages? The idea of allowing a man to tie you up and make you submit to all of his sexual desires seems to go against everything feminism and Gloria Steinem ever taught us. Butdespite the scary descriptions you've heard about bondage in the bedroom, a littlekinkcan bring you and your partner endless pleasure and joy between the sheets. Whether you just want to tie each other up, smack one another around, or go all out withnipple clampsand anal beads, bondage can be your new BFF in bed. (Read valentines day lingerie ? Find out why you should inBeyond "Fifty Shades:" How Erotica Can Improve Your Sex Life.)
Why S&M?
But S&M can work for normal, run-of-the-mill folks as well ... unless you’ve been living in a crate underneath a pawnshop. That was probably The Gimp’s problem.
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S&M can bring out jiggle balls and love eggs of you and your partner that you’ve never witnessed. Plus, S&M and bondage is founded on mutual trust and communication, which can bring you and your partner closer together than ever before.
Bondage & S&M for Beginners - What You Need to Know
The most important thing to discuss before you invite S&M andbondageinto the bedroom is boundaries. You both need to be on the same page when it comes to how far you’re willing to explore the darker side of sex. If you want to tie your partner up but he or she only wants to experiment with a tickler, it’s not going to work. As we said before, S&M is all about communication. It’s absolutely necessary for both of you to trust and respect one another’s boundaries. Before you get it on, sit down and have a serious discussion about what you want to get out of S&M and how far you both want to go with it.
It’s also Katie's Reddit profile to have a safety word in the bedroom. This ensures that if things get too hot and heavy for one of you to handle, you can just say thesafety wordand take a breather. This word should have nothing to do with sex. "Turnip" should do it.
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Start off with furry handcuffs or rope, a blindfold and a tickler or small crop. You can usually get a set with all of these included. Beginning with lighter, playful toys enables you and your partner to accustom yourselves to them in the bedroom and then move on to more serious gadgets if you so choose.
On the first couple of nights, just experiment with tying each other up and finding your individual comfort levels. Pay attention to if you like being tied up or doing thedominating. And be sure to communicate everything you are feeling and thinking.
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Ball gags are a fun way of keeping your partner silent. If you use one, be sure to come up with a hand gesture or signal that implies you want out - you won't be able to utter your safeword after all.
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You can also get clothes pins to lightly clamp onto different body parts. Mixing pain and pleasure is definitely erotic and will make for an intense and explosive orgasm.Adding a bit of role play to the antics is also a great idea. Try having a dominant and submissive character, such as a teacher and student or doctor and patient.
Bondage Bringing You Closer
Women especially are afraid that allowing a partner to tie them up and dominate them in the bedroom will play out in the rest of their relationship, but this is not true at all. S&M is strictly reserved for the bedroom, and men who want to have control over their girlfriends in real life have power issues that should be addressed by a counselor.
If done right, S&M and bondage will increase the trust and faith you have in one another and open doors you never thought existed, including one to greater sexual pleasure. (Did the sex play in "Fifty Shades" pique your interest - and your curiosity? Read9 "Fifty Shades" Questions You Were Too Afraid to Ask.)
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